Hurt and disappointed

As I've said in my few previous post, the house closing was scheduled already for Thursday of last week. At the time we were happy and at the same time I was nervous, the reason was, I'm not sure if every thing's OK. The Thursday came and we went to the place where the house closing was to take place and then one of the staff said, the house closing won't happen because the FHA inspector never signed the inspection approval. See, how bad she/he really was. The reason for me being nervous was justified there and I felt hurt and disappointed especially when we tried our best to make this deal happen. The staff gave a new time for the house closing yesterday and still nothing happened because of her/him. So my husband and I decided that we are going to give up on this deal and cancel our flight for tomorrow going to the Philippines and put this house back on the market again especially because they changed the agreement, instead of the buyer paying the closing cost, now they just newly insist that they won't pay it. Which means we would have to pay the closing cost and receive a lower amount than we expected. Since we are hurt and disappointed about what they did we already canceled our flight to the Philippines and we'll continue with our plans to sell the house again. While writing this, my husband heard from the Realtor again who said the FHA has cleared the closing for tomorrow. Well let's see what surprises they have for us this time.